Saturday, July 9, 2016

Meant to be in Peru

Sometimes in life, a single moment can be the catalyst for change in your life. And if you're lucky, occasionally you can pinpoint it. For me, it all started with an image: a snapshot of toes and a passport to be exact. About a year ago, an old friend from high school posted about her impending Ambassador trip to Guatemala; and yes, included a pic of her toes, her passport, and the Dhaka woven bag (if I'm being detailed). Perhaps it was perfect timing, or perhaps it was simply one of those things that has no explanation and falls effortlessly into a 'meant to be' catch all bin; but this single photo re-ignited the exact spot of my brain responsible for adventure. An area temporarily under construction with two little ones taking up all available brain space. What was my friend an Ambassador for? What was in Guatemala? I absolutely yearned to know more. A few emails and phone calls later, and I knew. I may have fallen in lust with the image and lure of travel, but I had fallen in love with the company and mission behind it all.

Enter: Noonday Collection

I joined Noonday Collection as an Ambassador last July. I had never been to a trunk show, and the closest Ambassador to me was hundreds of miles (literally states) away. I didn't take time to perform a proper risk benefit analysis, or pro/con T chart. I listened to my heart, which told me this was something I just had to be part of. I jumped in blind. Did you hear that? I put on my big girl pants and declared myself a world changer. Somehow this organization that uses fashion to create meaningful opportunities around the world, was allowing me, a stay at home mama of two to find herself again. They say giving is better than receiving- and let me tell ya, advocating for our artisans by creating a marketplace where their beautiful pieces can be sold, has meant more to me than just that euphoric feeling of giving to others. It's been my privilege. My pleasure really, to act as a voice for the voiceless.

I decided the day after my launch that I had to meet our artisans. I've always been a traveler and I craved the life changing experience of storytelling with strangers turned friends. My desire to make a difference was after all, the reason I joined. I did the math, and I promptly drafted a goal list (I'm a list maker, a note keeper, and a word hoarder), because when you write it down, it becomes fact, yes? I'll spare you the details of late night trunk shows in the snow, complications from my oldest's tonsillectomy, and a husband away for work. I'll share the happy ending instead: by early December I had qualified for an Ambassador trip. WHAT?! Somehow I had pulled it off. If anything was ever meant to be, it was this. OK deep breaths...


Once the shock of my upcoming adventure had subsided, it was time to get to know the fifteen other world changing women I'd be traveling with. Women who, just like me, had taken a leap of faith to be a part of something bigger than themselves. And well, we just happen live in an era where socializing via the interwebs is our modern day cultural norm. Within minutes of our trip placement being announced, we all joined a Facebook group and the rest is history. Everyone immediately feels connected to strangers you just met online, right? That's the beauty of this tribe- we all share some common thread that connects us, that brought us to this exact point in life. One Fun Fact Friday after the next and we had become a single story telling whole. The time had come...

Saddle up ladies, we're going to PERU!


First Stop: Lima

From the moment we arrived it was evident Peru is a country rich in cultural history. Here our group visits the Amano Textile Museum in Miraflores. Ancient Peruvians did not keep a written history, and therefore textiles became the main way of symbolizing and preserving every thing about their culture and way of life. The patterns and designs we were lucky enough to view absolutely transcend time, and could be found on a modern duvet at Anthropologie, or the latest Noonday bag. And to think everything we saw was made by hand, using many of the same techniques still in practice today. What a treat this was! World changers at our finest.

(Photo credit: Kate Halaris)



Later that day we visited Emelime, the group responsible for knitting many of our alpaca scarves and arm warmers. We received a crash course in culture, humility, and survival as a band of artisans tried to teach us all to knit (insert humility here). At one point I recall looking up and taking in the scene: each artisan was paired up with two or three ambassadors, and all eyes were fully engrossed in the task at hand. Every one of us was communicating through hand gestures and broken Spanish, but the outcome was downright poetic. They were teaching us their craft.

(Photo credit: Joanna Wang)


(Photo credit: Jennifer Frey)


One of the women struck a chord with us all. With hesitation sweet Hermona shared that her parents had passed away when she was one. The new family who took her in did not value educating women. She began knitting at a very young age, and knew all the stitches by memory rather early on. When she was older she saw an opportunity for work in a knitting circle and literally made her own knitting needles out of tree branches she ripped down. This woman was determined to survive.


That day I learned that these women knit with love. The pride they have for their craft is unrivaled. It's not just work for them, but therapy really. You see, knitting is a communal activity. They knit together, and in doing so they can forget how tough life can be. For these artisans, knitting provides companionship, creates shared experiences, and allows many to overcome. In other words the exact description of Noonday's pillar: better together.


(Photo credit: Analisa Jernigan)


The next day our journey took us outside of Lima where there was no mistaking the extreme poverty of the area. Here we met Luis, part of the artisan group Allpa, focusing primarily on alpaca knitwear. In his words he relayed 'fair trade used to be old people, now so many of our younger generations want to take part in this social movement.' Yes, you're right Luis. We are are ready to take part. We cannot wait to share your stories and beautiful handmade goods with everyone we know.


Here I was able to gift Efigenia with a special heart handmade by refugees living in my area, as a way for them to earn an income. How sweet and grateful she was; and what strength she projects. I wish she lived closer, I'd love to get to know her.  It's not simply about selling more fair trade items, but really creating better livelihoods.


Speaking of livelihoods, one of the artisans I met at Allpa had the sweetest little daughter, Lucy, playing right by her side as she worked. In terrible Spanish I asked her if she liked Minnie Mouse (her shirt was a giveaway), and in her three year old voice I heard a long and wordy reply, but somehow picked out 'Me gusta Elsa'. Now, if you've ever been forced to endure 'Let It Go' on repeat by your four year old, you know she's referring to Disney's Frozen. Lucy's love of Elsa only served as a reminder that we are all connected in some way. Children's love for fairytales and happy stories is universal whether your mama is a CEO or a knitter for a living. I am so thankful and humbled that Lucy's mama has a job in an area where so many simply don't.



A quick bus ride and sack lunch later (jamon y queso wrap anyone?), and we had landed at Fermin's impressive metal working shop, which just happens to be on the fourth floor of his sturdy yellow home.


I must say, I was blown away by the artisans working here. The pieces crafted are in no better words a true labor of love. Every cut, every marking, every part of every piece is all hand crafted, with absolute pride. While sharing a few of their stories, one young girl relayed she used to take care of Fermin's children years ago, and then began working in his shop to earn a better income. A few artisans had even left (because the lure of greener grass is often part of life in your youth), but quickly realized the income and working conditions at Fermin's workshop far exceeded whatever else they had found. In a town of dusty streets, Fermin's shop has the greenest grass around. What a joy it was to meet this man providing for so many. Here are a few pics of Fermin, his workshop, and view of the surrounding area.







See you next time, Lima.


Second stop: Ayacucho

So you're saying our crew of world changing ambassadors will be flying across the world's longest continental mountain range, and this is our ride?

(Photo credit: Lindsley Grebenik)

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Hello, Andes. The view in air wasn't breathtaking or anything.


Look at that blue sky. We have arrived!


Whereas Lima opened my eyes, Ayacucho stole my heart. Known as the 'Capitol of Folk Art and Crafts of Peru', this sunny little town is a diamond in the rough. From our greeting with roses at the airport to a gelateria as the entrance to our quaint hotel on the main square, once again all things seemed meant to be in coming to Ayacucho.


Exploring the streets and enjoying a photo bomb with the locals. (Photo credit: Lindsley Grebenik)


Our first stop in Ayacucho was to visit Faustino and Mercedes, the proud founders and owners of the artisan group, Hilos and Colores, translated literally to Threads and Colors. This group is 'dedicated to rescuing, preserving, and promoting ancestral Peruvian textiles and techniques.' Remember our visit to the textile museum in Lima? Well this group actively weaves, embroiders, knits, crochets, and sews high quality products that speak to the traditional designs we saw at the museum, but also manage to flatter all modern trends. Even at some of the markets in Peru, you could tell the difference between hand crafted artisan goods such as products by Hilos and Colores, and those that were factory made. Our global marketplace is often saturated with mass produced goods, made out of synthetic and sometimes hazardous materials. It's refreshing to find a group like H&C that proudly make their natural products by hand. Here Lucas shows us how he dyes all of the yarn and how he created his own system to bundle each color. UH-mazing.


From threads to finished product. So beautiful. (Bottom left photo credit: Kate Halaris)


Could these two be any cuter? (Photo credit: Lindsley Grebenik)


Our very own Pom Queen. (Photo credit: Lindsley Grebenik)


Oh and their boss, Faustino? Starting with his very own mama, he makes empowering women a cornerstone of his business. In a culture that often heralds the 'machismo' way of thinking, he is at the forefront for the opposite mindset. He allows women to bring their babies to work and does whatever he can to keep them working, which includes his partnership with Noonday. And his wife Mercedes? She's his equal of course. Swoon, Faustino. Swoon. 


Here one of the artisans at Hilos and Colores shares that the bracelet she received from Noonday was the first she'd ever been given. She has four children and totes her littlest everywhere, including when she's working. Such a kindred spirit she was.


With our fill of threads, colors, and a whole lot of heart, our Peruvian journey continued two hours away up a curvy mountain road to clearing by the river. A location I assure you, could not be inputted into Google Maps. It was here that fifty native Quechuan women had congregated to meet and share stories with our Noonday tribe of world changers. We were told several of them had walked for three to four hours to get here. Often carrying their embroidery projects on their backs, in the same carrier that once held a child, they kept their work close. Although at times difficult with the language barrier, given two translators were on hand to assist our conversations (from Quechuan to Spanish, and then Spanish to English), the day was simply enchanting. These women come from so little, yet offered us everything. I cannot think of where they might be without the work and income they are able to earn because of Noonday. Through the universal language of children's laughter, we were all connected that afternoon by the river. Talk about an experience you'll never forget.






So, there you have it. A little tale about a dynamic group of women doing their part to help change the world (and I didn't even get to talk about the ceviche and Pisco sours!). Who would have thought less than a year after jumping in blind, I'd be traveling the world with this absolutely amazing Peru Crew? I never did, that's for sure. One thing I know is this, I've always loved telling stories, and this trip has fully stocked my adventure arsenal with loads of tales to last a lifetime. Because at the end of the day, we all have a story, and we all want to be heard. My work with Noonday means I'm connected to artisans all over the world. Connected by threads, colors, and the same desire to create a flourishing world. I'm so proud to share Hermona's story. Lucy's story. Efigenia's story. Fermin's story. Faustino's story. My story. And in the process of telling those stories, we're changing lives.

Might you suggest it was happenstance that I qualified for the trip, was chosen for Peru, or paired with this exact group of ambassadors and trip leaders turned life long friends? Nope. I say it was all meant to be.

(Photo credit: Joanna Whitely)


Here's to next year, ladies. I simply cannot wait.

Monday, August 4, 2014

28 weeks / 28 months

As of Friday I was twenty eight weeks along, and officially in my third trimester. As of today, Colden is twenty eight months old. I find the fact that my two boys can be the same 'age' at the same time particularly special. I honestly cannot believe in just twelve weeks or less we get to meet this new bundle, and that Colden will be a big brother!

This pregnancy has absolutely flown by. With Colden, I had the time to read up on where I was in the pregnancy, compare him to the size of a fruit, and focus on my body changing. This time around I have zero time and frequently forget I'm even with child. That is, until the sciatica back pain kicks in, my ligaments ache, and I realize this little one has the hiccups, again. Did I mention he moves all the time? Ohh how I love those kicks, despite it never getting any less weird. I am growing a human after all.

Here's a selfie at week twenty eight. Feelin' sassy.


And here's our little walking machine at 28 months.


Just a few days ago (on our anniversary in fact), I scored big time and captured him walking the length of our living room before he tried to tackle my phone. The whole time he's growling like his idol, Daniel Tiger (which happens to be on the TV in the background). I know it's only a matter of time before he's running as fast as a tiger, too.

Have a look at our determined little rock star.



Thursday, July 31, 2014

four years

Four years ago today, we said 'I do'. Our time officially 'married' is a drop in the bucket compared to our full relationship; we will celebrate fifteen years this August. Sheesh, that went by fast! After meeting in Boulder, Colorado, we both moved to California post graduation. Matt landed in LA, whereas I decided to chase my dreams in SF. Years of a long distance relationship led to a host of break-ups, but I always knew Matt was the one. Eventually, he figured it out too (men).

Engaged, and armed with a plan to move to Matt's hometown in western NY, we agreed to stay just two years. Well, we've been here five, bought a house, had a baby, and have a second on the way. My how quickly things changed. I'm certain our journey doesn't end here, though. Cheers to four fantastic years, Matt. I can't wait to see what's in store!

Enjoy this photo stroll down memory lane.






I called dibs on this man my freshman year in college. A decision I cherish. Happy 4-year anni, babe.


Sunday, July 27, 2014

Martin Cooks for Matt

Yesterday was Matt's birthday. We actually went out. To a fancy dinner. With our best friends. Dare I say winning? We honestly never go out anymore, so it's hard to admit it took a birthday to get us to book Grandma and Grandpa to babysit, and to leave the comfort of our sweet little village and head downtown. I booked a reservation at a hip new restaurant called Martin Cooks; complete with a five course pre fixe menu. This place is just oozing with historic charm: think period building, exposed brick walls, industrial features, etc. The food blew us away, too. Not to mention the ambiance was perfect, and the company beyond outstanding. What a great night. Happy Birthday, Matt!


Wednesday, July 23, 2014

SF Love

Colden has the most amazing friends. A host of admirers and 'fake aunties' that send him the best west coast gear. Recently I pulled out a few San Francisco items and a quickie photo shoot ensued. That's one tiny SF Giant...


When I asked him what color his shirt was, he signed orange. For whatever reason, this prompted lots of giggles.


Our day is never complete with out a little flash card play, of course. I found these educational cardboard cutouts on clearance at PB Kids, and what a score. Colden loves to go through each one, sign the animal, sign the color, count the items, or our latest trick, tell me what the letter says. For example, 'B' says bah! Look out kid, mommy loves this stuff.


Friday, July 18, 2014

And just like that...

We're walking. By ourself. Unassisted.

Did you hear that? COOL BREEZE IS WALKING! It's been a long 27 month wait for mama and dada, fraught with the constant comparison of a typical child, and a stream of never ending: 'is he walking yet?' inquires. After nearly 25 months of ongoing physical therapy, a 7-8 month stint of gait training, and the introduction of aquatic therapy last winter, all of our hard work has finally paid off. Our little risk taker has been pushing his radio flyer wagon, cruising, walking with your hands, and taking the occasional wobbly step unassisted since last October. He's just never let go...until now.

Matt captured this video on Friday July 11th, technically his first real steps unassisted. He's so proud of himself here; but really, the pride is all ours. Have a look. Go get 'em baby cakes.


I cannot believe the confidence he's gained in just a week's time since then. He's already up to ten or so steps unassisted, and counting  (I must post more videos). I know it's just a matter of time before he's running all over the place. Matt and I were hopeful he would walk this summer, but we weren't holding our breath. In our world, we are very accustomed to waiting, and waiting patiently. Research indicates the average age of walking for a child with DS is two and a half years, so technically we're ahead of schedule. Ohhh Colden. You're such an over achiever. 

Looks like your little brother is going to have big shoes to fill. We're SO proud of you, Cool Breeze!

Monday, July 7, 2014

4th of July Weekend

The last couple of weekends have been jam packed with visitors in town, and back to back work events. I was really looking forward to the holiday weekend to just relax; and to actually spend some time at home. Our sweet village hosts a parade celebrating the 4th on the 3rd, and at the last minute we decided to meet up with our friends and join in the fun.


By surprise, we ended up walking in the parade (Colden's first), and I have to say- it was pretty fun! There were lots of photo ops catching the tail end, as well as these tail ends. Daddy's sure love their boys.



The mamas and their little fellas.


Later in the weekend we headed to Green Lake for a picnic with the Hardy's. These boys are too much!


Talking a little stroll.


The rest of the weekend was spent, gasp...gardening! Matt ordered a huge heap of mulch, and for whatever reason, we both felt motivated to work on the yard. Call it nesting, but I was feeling really inspired to re-do our outdoor space. With a little local sleuthing, I managed to score a few end-of-the-season patio finds. Ahhh, this is nice.


What a great weekend!